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That was actually one of my favorite videos I have seen of Mehow. There wasn’t anything flashy about it. No silly lines or routines. But it was a very alpha, dominant video. It didn’t seem like a forced interaction like I have seen of other videos online. That’s the type of game that Hypnotica runs. Good shit.
Excellent! And I thought the same thing as I was watching it — this is Mehow doing Hypnotica. And guess what, it works!
Very impressive, maestro. Makes you want to see more. If you cull a bunch of this kind of stuff together (your best sets like this) and put it on an Infield Insider episode, it will rock.
“Mehow unlike you’ve ever seen him before!!”
Damn, I wanted to buy the GAM just a tiny bit before you took it down – had to get the cash for it first – if it doubles up in terms of price ($999 dollars or so?) it’s outta my reach.
Impressive vid funny thing she’s doing the same thing like you, researching and spreading the knowledge and stuff.
Love the video. I think Mehow opened group with BLPing to insta-blowout the guy. She was locked-in anyway, so it happened, like, that quick. And there are a lot of things going on during the attraction phase, very basic stuff, that’s so cool because it’s run like a pro. I also look forward to the secret to “10SSA running you and you running 10SSA.” Is it mindset and focus? Hmm…
i have leprosy…now you have it…im using that haha…good stuff mehow you sir have balls of steel that dude looks huge as fuke way to escalate with super speed impressive stuff what happened with this set at the end of the night? Interesting about running 10ssa or 10ssa running you…is it a matter of state? either way good stuff
that’s fuckin impressive
Mehow, this is top notch!
Hey, can you face Hypnotica? Or maybe Sinn? I know Sinn won’t go on a challenge with Hypno, but maybe you, since you two are friends. You should open this to a re-challenge, and see if Sinn takes the bait now that he’s comfortable being on video.
R.
R-Bone, after reading your post I feel like I wanna see a challenge too. I make childish vivid scenes in my head with different gurus, calling it a battle or fight instead, where it’s one scarce girl at a time having to be picked up. The winners between Hypnotica vs Matador, David DeAngelo vs Mehow, and finally Jeffy vs Sinn then face off in some finale to pick up the sassiest, hottest chick of all times, both with suprisingly cool amogs from unsuspected sources (Eben Pagan having read Mehow blog says “your wife just called, the kids wonder when the heat will be back on” and Mehow responds with “dude, you’re like Bart Simpson all grown up…”
Yes… And epic confrontation of tight game, astonishing amounts of mad amoging and nasty elbows to eachothers chests… Mehow starts round 1 by peacocking as a buff ballerina, Sinn comes in dressed like THIS: http://newsimg.bbc.co.uk/media/images/42447000/jpg/_42447116_gay_pridepicgall5.jpg … Yes an epic battle indeed, filmed like Keys to the VIP, with commentators Tyler Durden, Ross Jeffries, David Shade and Mark Cunningham. Tyler wears a rat costume, Ross’ personality for the day is Vlad Tepes (Dracula), Shade has somehow found a vaginadress that he keeps salivating on, and Mark has hypnotized the announcer girl to give him a blowjob under the entire show.
One can only dream of what then happens, as mystery guest Bill Clinton shows up to show the boys how it’s done, only he doesn’t realize that he’s hitting on a his own wife, while she’s dressed up as a fat darkhaired intern who just brushed her teeth. You can tell because she still has… no wait, that’s not toothpaste!
The plot thickens..
Swede,
Honestly that has to be the funniest blog comment any one has ever posted.
-m
Mehow, this whole process of you guys investigating what doesn’t work when game doesn’t work is leading in very interesting directions. First, you discover new ways of structuring how you interact that leads to interesting new possibilities or products … like 10sa … and then … as you explore it even more, it seems you come closer to having a greater grasp on what hasn’t yet been understood about interacting, at least in a structured. This is really fascinating, and appears to be a discovery of things it was hard to even see before. Very cool.
Cool, stuff man.
Props!
Mehow is the pinnacle of PUArism. Mad props, broseph.
Solid value.
Loved the way you ignored the dude. Nice work, I have found it hard to do. I feel “socially guilty” if I don’t acknowledge the dudes…
Mehow,
I have to agree with Anthony that was smooth. It was nothing like that one video I saw where the girl called you out and said, ” hey are you like that Mystery guy”, It came off so natural. Everything was so subtle yet so powerful. I’d like to mature to that level of game.
~B
Probs to the GAM offer. I honestly was getting pissed by now, but your generous secret Bonus made more then up for the delay!
There is a reason why I consider Mehow Inc the best, customer friendly company in the scene…
“Absolutely … for the last 10 seconds.”
I needed that sound bite so bad. Like 1 in 4 sets I open asks “Do I know you?” and now I’m going to use that.
I suppose that was impressive. It’s actually really easy to get a girl to sit on your lap. Try picking them up in your arms. If you get even slight attraction I just say, “Hey I’m stealing you,” and pick them up in my arms. Then I carry them away to isolation. Just takes some practice is all.
Mehow,
I love the value you give, your products are great, and I really appreciate the rec’s you’ve given (Power of Now), but damn, Barey Kirkey is a douche. I know you “might” like him, but he’s a douche and i truly haven’t laughed at a thing he’s said. He’s also an ignorant ADD having crackhead who uses profanity and bigotry b/c he has nothing else to say. “Johnny Suporno can rape me in my sleep for all I care.” Huh? Is this dude 14 years old? Also, he interrupted you several times, burping, cutting you off, sound effects?! I know it’s a part of marketing, being on his show, but not talking w/ that kook would def elevate your company. Anyway, much love dude and thanks for the value.
David
@ Zardov
It’s funny because I caveman all the time!
Lmao though much respect on the “stealing u” sound bite.
That is definately “10ssa cavemaning” adding the two together you’d be a “super Jedi ninja”
If this kind of approach tactic can be structured systematically then this is a new level of the game far beyond mystery method. Awesome!
how do you deal with the fact that she kept insisting you were friends?
holly,
she said we were friends because she was rationalizing sitting on my lap. what girls say dosen’t matter. its what they do that matters.
to answer everybody else’s question i kissed her 5 minutes later. on this set I was just going for pushing things as fast as possible.
-m
David,
on the barrey kirkey thing i’ll listen to the show by downloading it. i don’t know what it really sounds like because when were doing it live i’m on the other end of the phone line. if it’s really uncool i’ll pull the plug but i had a good time doing it.
Mehow,
Completely disagree with David. I actually have a new found respect for you after going on Barry’s show. I thought you did awesome and I got to see a side of you that wasn’t the “almighty marketing Mehow” that I have come to know. Both you and Hypnotica seem like really cool guys and I thought the interview you did with him was awesome. Hes like that with all his guests and you did great. David probably isn’t aware of what his show is about and doesn’t regularly listen to it. Anyway I used to think you were a douche before you went on the show but after the interview my opinion changed. Your a pretty cool dude and I relate to you more know and their for check your blog out more because of it. Great Vid, look forward to the next interview.
Nothing like blowing a guy out by being non-reactive…it’s the only way to go…and you have witnessed a true master at work
Funny thing is that I did this the other night in a mixed 4 set( 3 girls, 1 guy)
I didn’t acknowledge the guy talking to me but after like 15 second of him being in my ear my target says” This is my BF blah blah” and I’m like
“Oh, didn’t see you standing there man..nice to meet u champ.” Lol
I kinda felt like a dick
I really can’t wait to hear the breakdown on this clip because I can’t figure out why you had such immediate compliance from her. I completely get why things went smoothly because you matched her compliance with seamless escalation and great directives…you’re energy is perfect–it’s not the “high energy” dogma out there, and rather, it’s chill and positive–which I’m finding is HUGE and a much better characterization. But seriously, did you have great social proof or something before hand? Because she wanted to meet you before you even said “you guys look chill…” (brilliant re-frame by the way; I like it even better than your “you guys look like fun” because it casts you as the cool guy from the start–and dropping the FTC has been helping me out too.)
But yeah…She even offers her hand before you make any suggestion (verbal or non-verbal) that you wanted to shake hands. She doesn’t shit test you, she doesn’t seem skeptical of your approach, nothing–she’s letting you lead. And the guy seems like he’s either: A) her friend that wants her to meet a cool guy, giving a token test to you, sees her compliance by the handshake and knows it’s his cue to bounce or B) is a guy who was in set, blowing it, she’s looking for an escape, and he sees the handshake compliance and no eye contact from either of you and it’s his cue to bounce–and then right at that moment, he’s called over by his friend who’s talking to some other woman. What’s the back story and context here? Props regardsless. Brilliant demo. And I think it really speaks to how clean your mind and prescence is these days–in order to match her this well, even if she was dying for you to talk to her, you can’t have any insecurities and defilements popping up in your head. A crappy person with a selfish agenda, or insecurities can’t pull this off. So I hope you give yourself some props; they’re well deserved and you should be proud of these accomplishments because they speak to the deeper level your finding in life.
The other night I had similar compliance like this with a 4 set of girls doing pretty much the same thing, and the girl was a sweet and nice girl, with her life together, but by no means a Maxim girl. I’ve never gotten compliance like this from any girl over a 7. I know you’re not big on scales–but it’s hard to tell what she looks like in this video. Does this play into the immediate high level of compliance you got? But also, where do you rate her compliance when you moved to qualification–what do you think about the vagueness that she spoke about her profession with? Clearly, you did fine later with a kiss close, but I’m curious if you felt like that was a strong IOI qualifier that led you to escalate more, or if it told you you had to do much more work even though she was on your lap? How did you interpret her responses there and what was your next move?
You write:
“The things I’m doing in that video are the same things that have recently led me to sex with exotic dancers and playboy bunnies and college girls some of whom were literally FIFTEEN YEARS younger than me. Some of these girls are so cool I might have to keep them around for extended periods of time. Mmmm … but I digress.”
Did those sarges you elude to above really go this easy? I’m sure the elements are the same, but have you really cracked the code to a level where Miss California is on your lap within 30 seconds?
Thank you for this clip.
I’m still blown away by how easily Mehow gets compliance, even in his older videos. Now it seems even better and tighter. To whoever posted the thing about her saying they’re friends, that’s pretty common. So is the initial objection, “I never do this.” “I never go home with guys I meet at the bar”, “Me either, they think they can get me a drink and then the shirt is coming off, I’m not that easy either.”
Concerning Barry, I think he’s like the old version of Tom Green vs. what Tom Green acts like now. He’s still working on his comedic style because even though he’s putting out this product a lot, he hasn’t been doing it that long. It’s definitely gotten better and though his forum has some er… interesting elements on it, I think he’s pretty cool because he makes PUAs put it on the line and doesn’t tolerate bullshit. A lot of MPuas won’t go on his show when they realize he’ll shit-test (lol) them.
Concerning Mehow, any time I’ve sent him or Fuji an e-mail or needed advice or help with a problem, they answer quickly and give a real answer, not “see my new product” bullshit. So long as they help me, they got my support.
Boss and Noman,
you both raise good points. I don’t listen to him often, but I’d find it hard to do so aftet the 2 I have listened to. I do agree that it’s cool he’s bringing on MPUAs, but I just think he’s an immature jackass. And believe me, I’m immature as a mother fucker, but there’s 2 types, and he’s the 14 y.o. type. Also, I completely agree w/ you Boss, Mehow kicked ass despite the hurdles. As for Barry’s humor, hey, different strokes (and I’m guessing Barry has quite a few different strokes)…
Michael Jordan…I mean Mehow, make that shit look easy…playing at another level
Barry Kirkey in my opinion is a deush that is nothing but negativity…Mehow you handled his attempts at being funny very well. Barry Kirkey supports kj’s and people on that forum of his are kj’s because all they talk about is the gossip in the community instead of getting out in the field. Why do people listen to the show or go on his forums…because they want to be entertained…they treat pick up as entertainment not a source of positivity that can enrich one’s life or bring value to one’s life…Barry Kirkey=Chode…Mehow I appreciate what you bring high octane stuff that brings tons of value but Barry Kirkey=KJ god
Aaron,
The reason they listen to it has nothing to do with pickup. Barry is entertaining, and that’s all. I listen to it pretty often, and I take pickup seriously (just started G12).
Mehow,
you were great on the show. A few jokes were not your type of humor so you didn’t always play along, but it was a good show. I took a look at the comments on their forum, and they all seem to like you. They just had issues with your sound quality, but don’t know if it was your fault or barry’s.
His forum is dick-crack central, and he even admits it on there with Mehow. He’s talking about things that Mehow, a guy in the community, has no idea about. Meanwhile he, Barry Kirkey, a guy who claims to hate the community, knows every last little tid-bit about every PUA out there. Some irony?
From his forum, I gather that you have a mix of:
1.) Guys who think PUA products are overrated and overpriced.
2.) Guys who hate all PUAs and all PUA products.
3.) Guys who tried to get good with women and failed epically.
4.) Guys who are good with women and want to feel smug and superior to the Hoi Polloi that aren’t.
5.) Guys who think it’s all good fun and amusement.
I thought the Formhandle conversation was funny though, because I wanted to know about Formhandle. Ever since whomever posted that conversation on here between Neil Strauss and. Formhandle where Formhandle KJ’ed the shit out of the idea of a hooking point.
Hey guys, the link to the barry kirkey Mehow episode is not available anymore. How else do i get it?
Episodes are available during one day only. Every week-end, all the episodes of the week are available. So you have between saturday morning and sunday evening to download the mehow episode
‘But that’s the best thing about Mehow, Inc. we’re all about walking the walk instead of KJing the talk.’
LOL!
You can’t really neg the SL guys on repition, the quality of their newsletters was very very high over a long period. Higher than yours. But hey video sure is sexy.
So Mehow, some BS last night.
blah blah blah.
Unless you buy us a drink we’re going to Lulu’s.
me: blah.
hb: Drink.
Drink Drink.
Me: is she always this obnoxious, how do you guys roll with her?
hb-friend: it’s her birthday.
[pretty good smack down eh?!]
me: really! Happy Birthday! OK, I’m your bithday present. I’ll grant you one wish.
hb: buy us blah.
me: I won’t do that. But I will show you a magic trick.
me: OK join hands.
hb-friend [it's a 3 set] no.
me: you’d have more friend if you complied.
hb: no. Buy us a blah.
Pretty sure at some point I did another put down. But can’t remember perfect.
Anyway, digged the counter warfare there.
bye!
For the drink objection, I typically say, “I’d love to buy you a drink, but I don’t know you very well. So the way I do this with my friends is that they buy a round, then I buy a round.”
HB: “Why don’t you buy us the first round?”
Me: “Because the rules state that the sexiest person gets the first free drink, and that’s me.”
HB: “No way, I’m way sexier than you.”
Me: “Really? What’s the sexiest thing you’ve done?”
I prefer to tell women that I would love to buy them a drink but… because it doesn’t imply I’m a cheapskate. Plus, I’ve found some women have rules that they won’t sleep with a guy who doesn’t buy them a drink. I’ve also met women who won’t sleep with me unless I’ve bought them dinner, or taken them out on a traditional date, etc. At the same time, if all they want is a drink from me, I’m still saying that they need to jump through my hoops first.
If you have some really strong objection to buying women drinks or taking them out, then don’t do it, but it limits your success IMO.
Can someone please evaluate my sarge below?
I went out last night to a local bar with some of my winging friends. I was peacocking with my yellow “Who Farted?†t-shirt and bright blue mesh shorts. I went up to a mixed set and it went like this:
Opinion opener: “Hey guys, quick question, is a queff just as funny as a fart?†(Guys usually say no. Girls usually say yes, so I bust on them for that).
The set gives me a weird look, so I take that as an IOD and I return an IOD by negging the target, “Hey, you’re fat, but I’m sure you have a great personality (calibrating an IOD with an IOI)
The neg worked well because the target slapped me in the face (kino IOI). I returned with an IOI by going for a k-close. The target proceeded to kick me in the balls (sexual kino). I take this as a massive IOI and I return the IOI by dancing and grinding up next to her.
Then an AMOG in the set tries to blow me out by coming up to me and punching me in the face. I show that I’m unreactive by ignoring him and saying to the target, “It didn’t hurt.â€
Immediately, a girl from a set right next to us puts her hand on my shoulder(kino IOI) and opens me up with, “Hey are you alright?†I respond with, “Hey missy, this shit ain’t for free.†I face her friends and say, “Jeez, is she always like this?†An AMOG in her group tries to blow me out by saying: “Dude, you’re bleeding.†I respond with a classic TD line, “Bro are you alright? You look tired.†After that, I got dizzy and passed out.
I dream of someday becoming a PUA instructor, but for some reason i have a ton of AA.
Noman has a good point. You want to still demonstrate you are a high value guy by not showing you are cheap and at the same time not giving in to her demands because she’s used to usually getting what she wants from guys.
A Holla at Mehow! what do you do in these situations? Do you have any good rebuttals?
The last time it happened to me and this we before I really knew the game I said I will buy you a shot if you buy me a drink later. Sure enough when I ran into her later she bought me a drink and we ended up making out on the dance floor shortly after. When I approached her the first time I must have built some attraction. We didn’t talk for that long and I said something like hey gotta get back to my friends but hey I will save you a dance on the dance floor later a cocky funny tonality.
Bridge, that was totally alpha. Complete dominance, you handled the shit-tests with massive reframing and came off completely calibrated. Your peacocking is okay, but you need to add in black polished nails, a set of shoes with flames on them, (hand painted with markers works), and an LED tag that says, “I lie to girls”. Don’t dance, heterosexual men should never dance. Add that in and your sets will be wham-makeout-wham-makeout-makeout-makeout.
For the neg, decent, but you should calibrate your IODs with IOD/IOD/IOI/SOI/IOD/IOI structure. So it’s “Hey, you’re fat. And not in the baby fat way, but the baby back rib way. Your clothes have some serious stretch marks on them, but your personality is amazing. I can’t wait until you suck my dick, because that will look like feeding a tic-tac to a whale. Fat chicks give great head because they don’t know when they’ll see another cock.” Then bathroom pull, tell her you get off to jerking off on chicks and that with a girl her size, no matter where it lands when you cum it’s sure to hit her. Bathroom pull everytime.
For your kiss close, you forgot two important words. Remember to go, “OI HEY!” and then chase her down and beg for the kiss. That doesn’t work, convince her you’re a celebrity and that she’ll be famous. Wham makeout.
Mehow, Did you have to condition yourself to be socially unreactive to everything, I still have that problem of being reactive and responding to everyone around me!
Looks staged
This thread is funny as hell!
Thanks for the video Mehow
So what I want to know from Mehow, Fuji, and Kamo (and company) is this: Are you having any results with this stuff in social circle game? Whether 10SSA — but especially that — or anything else?
Reason I ask, is that a lot of this seems suited to strictly club game. Even day game doesn’t count. I’m not talking at all about cold approach pickup.
And by social circle, I’m talking about your social circles *outside of* the community. If you’re thinking of a social circle that you cultivated as a result of your sarges or your dealings in the community, that doesn’t count. Meaning, for example, if you pulled a 3-set one night at a club, and subsequently met all their friends, and then were invited to a party — that’s not social circle. Or if you coached a student, and he gets engaged, and then invites you to his wedding — that’s not social circle. You don’t want to be a wedding crasher. (Right?)
So I’m saying, first of all, do you guys have *any* social circles *outside of* pickup, and if you do, then do you ever use techniques such as 10SSA when dealing with any of the women in that social circle? Or do you use less-intensive techniques in such circles such as GTG, GAM, PureKino, etc.?
I don’t want to know whether you *think* we can use it in our social circles. I want to know whether *you* use it in *your* social circles, but again only those outside of the community.
Thanks, gents. Otherwise keep rockin’.
-Steve
PS – Examples of social circles include: people you have regular exposure to in activities like classes, regular sports (e.g., softball, volleyball), place of worship, even the workplace. Also somewhat “removed” friends of family e.g., the kinds of people your friends or family might otherwise try to set you up with. Or friends you normally socialize with as part of an organization of likeminded (not weird) people, and then let’s say new members come into the club and you don’t want to screw your rep by hitting on them, but you might want to do a slower sarge over a longer period of time. Can you use 10SSA? Rapid infield results? Is this even considered “the field”?
Steve,
Closely study the actual principles of human interaction behind the techniques. A good place to start is the appendix of 10 SSA.
Once you know the principles of interaction that power 10 SSA , then you can use those principles in any interaction, any where, at any time. The principles will work in any interaction because they are the fundamentals of all human interaction. Sure, learn the material and soundbites, but more than that look at the fundamental principles and use them in all of your interactions with people. You may be surprised!
Remember, if done correctly this can be s is an across the board transformative process. The “field” is your life.
Steve,
How’s it going man? Glad to see you’re making a good effort to get out.
I’ve been doing a LOT of work on social circle building lately, equally if not more so than cold approach sarging. While I’m not the best at it, I’m probably more experienced and educated in building one and maintaining it from ground zero than most people you’ll meet. I’ve done this mostly from having a friend from work or school, getting invited to a “go out” or house party, and networking and meeting everyone I can, trading a few numbers, and inviting individuals from there privately out for a weeknight drink or lunch, until I can get into another group event to build stronger bonds.
Here’s my thoughts about social circle:
1) NO 10SSA. Don’t even think about it. It’s creepy, awkward, and will make you look like an idiot. Honestly, for you I wouldn’t use 10SSA at all (I mean that in a positive way), but definitely not in social circle.
2) 95% of any lines, routines, or gambits will not work well in social circle. I say this including Mehow Inc., as well as LoveSystems, and Sinn/CJ. RSD is more applicable for sure, especially Blueprint. Blueprint will do more for your social circle ability than any other product, because it teaches you how to be inherently likable by all people, instead of just doing things to make people comply with your plans for the night. Blueprint is about BEING instead of DOING, meaning you become someone more likable 24 hours a day, instead of just being in field. Another thing is Braddock’s Social Circle seminar from LoveSystems, but I haven’t been to that.
3) Mistakes in social circle game are a lot more costly. I know from experience that if you creep the wrong person out, accidentally AMOG the ring leader, or make a clumsy pass at a girl in a stupid way, you may not be invited to hang out with them again, or it’ll take a long time to recover.
This doesn’t mean don’t make a move on any girl. Rather, it means be more conservative about your escalation. You’re consistently “sarging” the whole group, not one person. You actually can make a move on a girl in social circle and get flat out rejected without any harm to your social standing if you do it right. There’s a right way to fail, and a wrong way to fail. If you don’t understand this yet, that’s fine, it’ll come.
4) In social circle game, your main objective is to become a grounded member from the group that is both invited to everything and also can invite THEM to cool stuff. This can position you more to be a leader, with more social proof. The more you build value to the whole group, the more women in the group see you as a prize who’s worth hooking up with or dating long term. In a lot of these groups, girls will often switch off dating different guys in the group, and it could easily be your turn just if you act cool for a while.
Value is everything in social circle. This one girl from a group I met first told me “I want to see you with your shirt off” when we were hanging out, then invited me out with her friends, while telling this other guy, Joe, that the party was over, so she could hang with me. Later after a times hanging out it became clearer to her that Joe was a higher value core guy in the circle, while I was just on the border of the group. To make a long story short, she ended up sleeping with him and not me, even though she actually liked me more when she thought our standing was equal.
This is fine, and normal, and I didn’t begrudge either of them for that. It just reminded me to keep in mind that it’s always social value first, and any other part of game second.
If you have any questions, please feel free to ask.
–Dan
the revolution radio bit is not available
I haven’t been on here awhile and haha Mehow your such a clown “I have leprosy so now you have it” “oh okay” haha that was soo cheezy good video =)
What’s GAM stand for?
GAM = Group Attraction Manifesto
Steve,
What’s intersting is that Kamo pretty much just uses 10SSA all the time on social circle. So do i. I’ve gotten way more practice with it on cold approach but Kamo does social circle a ton and the 10SSA system was based, in part, on his natural game.
-m
none,
It will be available again during this week-end, then unavailable again forever.
etherdj,
GAM = Group Attraction Manifesto. It’s a product from Mehow that covers everything from the opening to the attraction phase in great details, insisting a lot on subcommunication and on what you do/say on different channels of communication. It breaks down everything in small details. 2 books, dvd, audio cd’s, … it’s a complete product. At least, it’s going to be… one day :-p
10SSA covers the comfort phase (mid-game).
oups, I didn’t refresh so I didn’t see Mehow already answered
Learning this material and working with it in my social circles has been absolutely fantastic for me, and my circles. I’m more interested in the people in my social circle being happier and having an even better time than they did before, and this material has definitely been effective in helping that to happen.
Interesting Noman.
In fact that routine which failed there was a Dimitri Vorontz modified J. routine.
(I kiss the birthday girl).
Fact is though it is a battle, they’re being shit, and I need to settle them. Which means dominating them.
So I’m doubtful about your suggestion, but sure some time I’ll give it a go. Thanks.
Anyway, when routine is blocked, what then?
Drop the block girl’s status? Then its 2 girls in the set I’ve given the smack down. Probably social violator territory.
I’m not about to buy 3 – have demonstrated no value – women expensive drinks.
Mehow should chime in, because for once I’m making other people look shit (Wayne Elise), so he can look comparatively good. Missing an opportunity…..
10SSA done right works everywhere and in any remotely appropriate social context. Once you start 10SSAing you can’t stop. Its too much fun. And then girls all around you start getting addicted to it and start texting you in the middle of the night. Plus when you get your value velocity up you’re expending so much less energy that it feels like you’re just chilling and girls are freaking out all around you.
The only thing I’ve been more careful of in social circle situations is sexuality. I still use it but I’m more subtle and implicit about it.
MavBlue Says:
April 20th, 2009 at 6:35 pm
–and dropping the FTC has been helping me out too.)
can’t believe we let this little tid bit by… do tell more. i thought this was a bed rock of eliminating resistance to your approach/attraction efforts, but have found myself that i’ve been shit tested on the FTC later after i’ve locked in. always turned it into something fun, but the fact that it was even brought up always made using it weird… although if it left enough of an impression to be commented on later… was probably effective at something… but what? help or hinderance?
Peter
Damnit the Barry Kirkey show isn’t up for download, how do I listen?!?!? (value whore)
That’s an incredible response, Dan. Thanks so much for that. It’s really helpful, the only one yet, and far more helpful than Mehow’s (for reasons I don’t have time to go into — sorry Mehow).
That’s very refreshing advice. It’s good to see you’re putting a lot of time into social circle — at least as much as cold approach — and that you’re advancing in your own evolution. I like everything you say, and it really rings true with my experiences so far, and with what I want long-term.
I got dropped from one social circle and I’m almost certain it was because of a combination of too much game (mostly banter and teasing, but still too much) and expressing a little too much interest, even indirectly, in the one girl who I suspect was the ringleader’s main squeeze, even though it was never clear if she “belonged” to him. But after one event where I casually asked him where she was (he said, “I don’t know!” and sort of got defensive — he was a bit of a natural and I think he knew what I was up to), I never got invited again. That, and every time I’d leave one of the events, I’d wonder to myself if I’d gone too far with any of the girls in terms of banter, teasing, and busting. Did I piss anybody off? Did I offend anyone? I was using a lot of edgy humor, and some of it was a tad sexy but always very subtle.
I agree with you on your thought that I should not use 10SSA at all, and your reasons. I’ll say I’ve gotten better with subtleties and I’m not as crude as I used to be, with innuendoes and such — meaning that I believe I could use some 10SSA without causing offense. But I’m sure I would fail enough times, and the risks are much too great, especially in social circle. You’re so right that the slightest violation will get you thrown out of the group. This didn’t just happen with the one group but there have been a couple other times although these were less important circles and it didn’t matter.
The way you describe it, you can see that it’s a totally different area of pickup. And I really like what you say about the Blueprint stuff. I’m definitely going to have to invest in that.
Nice work, Dan. You’re becoming a real human being, if you don’t mind my saying! I’m not denigrating the club guys, but this is so much more applicable to real life. What you’re doing will stand you in good stead in life as a whole, much more so than what the club guys are doing.
Thanks for your response, the depth of it, and for taking the time — it’s very meaningful.
-Steve
PS – Dan, if there’s a place you post regularly, other than the old lair or Mehow’s forum, let me know — I do have some questions, and I’m not sure this blog is appropriate either. It’d be great to get back in touch. Thanks, man. – Steve
I can’t comment on that particular routine, I don’t use it. I don’t know how accurate your recalling is, there’s only one thing that stands out. In a birthday girl set or other hardcore partying set, watch Mehow’s “Infield Exposed”, “Party girl” section. I’m not sure if he’d play it again the same way, but the key to something like that is good wings. Girls act really crazy at bachelorette parties, birthday parties, etc., so a pull is much more difficult.
Back to your set, this is what sticks out to me:
“me: I won’t do that. But I will show you a magic trick. Ok, join hands.”
You made a value offer then refused it when they asked. Now that you know what can go wrong, calibrate it. Say, “I’m your birthday gift and I’ll grant you one favor (I don’t like the way “wish” sounds, my preference) from me. But I don’t do sexual favors or buy bitches drinks, so you need to be more creative.”
Rather than try to deal with it on the fly, pre-emptively tackle the problems. “Logistics, not tactics”.
That was totally solid, but it was also totally Mystery stuff. The spin/stole your seat was a Mystery move from the textbook. Then he goes right into qualification (A2) because A1 is clearly over by the time she’s sitting on his lap.
I’m not saying there isn’t great value in this clip, and it is executed brillantly, but it’s nothing new.
Zane, you obviously don’t know the old M3 model
A1 is just opening, A2 is attraction. The qualification is (was) A3.
Steve,
Glad to help. I haven’t posted on any forums lately, cause just about all of them suck (actually, I think all of them do, if you find exceptions, let me know). I’ve been posting less, and living more, not that those are mutually exclusive, but it tends to happen as you come more into your power, I believe.
Feel free to email me and I’ll tell you a bit more about my experiences. If you don’t have my email address anymore, post yours and I’ll reach out to you.
–Dan
Thanks, Dan. Sounds great.
Yeah, all the forums do suck. I haven’t found one that really does it for me.
I’ll drop you a line — I’ve still got your e-mail. Want to hear all about how things are going.
Keep living that life — I like what I’m hearing.
-Steve
Mehow,
I love that you post the videos to back up what you say. Need to see more actual “doing” and less “talking” from most coaches.
xoxo,
Erika
Enjoyed the teleconference and looking forward to the videos. Thanks for keeping the call (as always) value & content rich so that we were excited enough to hear about your new Infield Exposed series. I’m definitely looking forward to it and you will see me promoting the hell out of it.
What was the url to that link in the teleconference? Mehow said it so fast (twice but very fast) that I could not catch it on the conference call…please let me know about it…thanks!
http://www.infieldexposed.com/10ssa/privatepreview.php
sorry it sounded slow in my head. i guess i’m exited.
also thats a one camera preview shot – in the product your going to get much better shots cause we had 2 cams working
-m
I’m calling it the “Double Mint Twin” set. Gotta admit those girls had valid concerns, that place looked like a cock festival outside of those two.
Mehow – thats great. Awesome teleconference and loved your time on BK’s show this week. Thanks!
Great call filled with value. That sexual grounding is what Hypnotica teaches, and I’m going to get back into that tonight since I stopped doing that for quite a while. The sneak peek video is great and entertaining. Looking forward to a dissection.
Just saw the video – awesome stuff Magneto!…lol….looking forward to the product….thanks!
I couldn’t attend the call, it was at 4:00AM here and I was soooo tired. So I’m glad I have the link anyway. That video is great. I have to say… these girls were really fun, they were giving value a lot of value.
Haha. Magneto. I love it man
I’m supposed to be learning from your products and video’s but i’m too busy laughing and having a great time watching them, to pick any soundbites up!!
I missed the call, it was like at 4:00am over here as well, i love mehow n fuji but i have to keep fit for work!! haha.
I’m sure the call kicked ass, as always.
Keep up the Excellence
Stuart
Mehow,
Or maybe it’s because we’re watching it from a third person point of view.
your soundbites are great for men too, since we’re all laughing when watching your clips
Noman, that is part of the routine – stimulating them to demand drinks. Then offering something else (which they roll their eyes at – ‘a trick – what a tool!’).
And then I get the last laugh by tooling the cynical girl into a kiss.
Not sure it will ever work though. A few more tries and its binned.
I guess the only thing to do is open fire on the person blocking things. And hope that works. In Mehow’s bachelor set, he pisses one girl of so she leaves. I guess that’s it. Open fire and cut to an opinion opener maybe. Low compliance.
They bring it, I deal it out and cross my fingers.
Bridge69,
Man I don’t see how taking a punch to the face is alpha but definitely a good example of turning the other cheek… LOL. I think in caveman times it that wouldn’t be considered alpha. In modern times though I can see how being the bigger man and having more self control not to fight back would DHV and thus being more alpha.
~B
Mehow,
I liked your video from this blog post but I think the video in that link with the 2-set is pretty weak.
I think you need to project a bit more masculine energy when you are going into set. What you do there looks very dancing monkey to me.
And what’s up with that “For shots and giggles let’s see if you guys are psychic blablabla…”??
That’s just lame and gay as fuck. Aren’t you tired from those silly pathetic routines? Sure the girls might laugh at it but at the same time you are giving your power away by acting all gay to seek their approval.
Why don’t you just go in there like a man and OWN it?
I really like your 10ssa stuff but the only good thing about that 2-set was the playful vibe you were projecting. Other than that it seemed they were just merely tolerating you because you put up that whole show. I think you should rather just go in there and have fun and sweet them off her feet, and forget about those bullshit tactics and gay little routines. Just my 0,02c
This was most excellent, thanks a lot
I have a business card that I use when doing the “1-4 Routine”
On the front is has:
Choose a number
1 2 3 4
On the back it has:
All sex maniacs choose 3
As per the routine everyone chooses 3, except people who already know the 1-4 routine. The “sex maniac” thing goes really well with 10SSA.
Honestly… I don’t think there’s anything in this call that’s not ripped off another company’s established theories.
I mean, seriously. Compliance and escalation? SOI’s?
It’s cool you’re all about the “structured natural game” thing, but it really seems like it’s just a compilation of other methods.
Idk… Just my opinion.
what are the qualities that project charisma?
“Thank you for not being a douche bag”
That line alone proves that he’s doing something right!
It’s no mystery that those two just wanted someone to beat them round the head with their cock
Hey Mehow
What I liked about the video is that you somehow kept that same energy that you always have, but in a more chill way. Is that what you are going for in this clip, or since I have seen you at a bootcamp. You somehow didn’t seem to be working as hard as let say the original exposed or insider stuff. It seemed like way less physical energy or something. By the way Bro what is with your voice. You have to stop going out so much, or taping tons in one night. You had a little Brando Godfather thing going. I give you credit bro you are always pushing the envelope on why we aren’t gettting better results.
Amaze
that audio was fukn amazing!!!!! toning down free association in comfort will be massive for me. I live in a world where with all my friends we free associate all day everyday on such an intense level that i naturally do it around women and i know i do it more in a comfort stage because i think it gives me higher value and/or makes me look funny but now i can see how much it’s been killing my sets.I even remember an old g/f telling me she thought i was funny but she just doesn’t understand my humour half the time.Due to exactly what your talking about here. looking back it blows my mind how much i could have closed if i knew i was becoming weird in comfort. Its just soooo fukn obvious I cant believe i didn’t see it!!!. I also tend to break tension with laughter. which i fukn hate aswell. because often i can see them looking confused as to why iv laughed or I’ve even had a girl say whats funny?? and i just make up something to fit on the fly…annoying though. Are you still doing that much??
? OK how does telling the girl that and having her say excellent work? Must be something in your voice tone and face g esters that she knows your kidding. ? I so am not going to try this
the infield insider 10 ssa edition is going to be off the hook from the look of these vids. thanks a lot Mehow!! very strong body language ! cant wait to see the whole thing with commentary
“Did you give me a fake number you bitch!” Great stuff.
Hey Mehow cool pickup…. but i got a bit of a dilema that you might be able to help me… See I’m going to Rehab (hard rock hotel pool party) next month, and am not sure what type of pickup is neccessary in that kind of atmosphere.. should i try taking her to HER room? or meet up later at night for club game, then isolation? thanks
This is some amazing sh**
great videos, im currently learning from “get the girl” and “how to talk to hot women” programs and i would love to get my hands on some “infield exposed–10ssa” i’ve learn so much from the other programs i think infield would take me to a different level…although i get alot of attraction from women…i’d like to be able to get any girl i want. thanks
the reason why im excited about this product mehow is because i think you have basically cracked the game not just by ure skill level but because u are able to put down onto paper absolutley everything u do infield in a way that is extremley productive which is something that makes u unique as other puas of similar skill levels cant do this as effectivley…you are the only pua i would ever get a product from because of this and also because when u hype something up we can all see your not lying at all…i can already tell this product will have all the value u say it has if not more…im going to save up to get it but if i cant il be devestated….i think this will most deifnatley transform my game and my life in a way that i cant really even imagine
I’m excited about the new product because unlike the other “methods” out there this is the one that most realistically mimics “natural” game and doesn’t rely on long winded routines or things to memorize. Most positive interactions between men and women are back and forth banter but the problem is until now, there doesn’t seem to be a product out there that really teaches you HOW to setup the dynamic where you can go back and forth and how to calibrate properly so she’ll keep coming back for more. I frequent your blog regularly, have listened to the Erin interview (which IMO is the best interview I’ve heard in a while because it had an actual girl involved and you could see illustrated the principles being used.) It’s one thing to write something and say do x, y, and z) and another to hear it actually put to use. I live on a college campus where I see and interact with girls all the time but I’m doing something wrong because while I can open conversations, I have tons of 20 minute go nowhere sets because I don’t know how to escalate the conversation and turn it sexual/attraction. Instead I give off a friendly/fun vibe which is OK but won’t lead to results. That’s why I think I would benefit from your program and why I would put it to good use. I have the basics down and understand the fundamental principles, but I need something to take me to the next level and based on the videos I’ve seen above, I think this is it. Hope you pick me!
The best way to learn game is by watching videos of pickups that are REAL. I want want to Infield Exposed 10SSA product because I want to learn from the best on video. With the new 10SSA and break downs, I know I will get the girlfriend I’ve been looking for.
Hey Mehow, I’am very excited about the new release of 10ssa infield exposed. After watching the preview videos and emails I can only imagine how much this will help me when out in the field. I’ve only been real serious about this stuff for about four months and your stuff has jet propelled me past all the other guys out there.
Mehow!
Thank you for your generosity in offering up 2 free copies of these videos!!
Here’s why I should recieve one of them.
One of the things that is most alluring to any artist is a blank canvas. It is pure potential and possibility, ready to be made into something great, something unique, and as the creative power of the artist is expressed, the full potential of the canvas is realized.
Just so happens, I’m at a place in my life right now where I am – you guessed it – a blank canvas. I just graduated from a degree program and stayed in the area that my university is at. But here’s the kicker. All of my friends graduated too, and moved all over the country.
The techniques you present in these videos will be perfect for my situation – since you mentioned you were going into the clubs with no wings, no social proof – which is what I’m going to be doing.
A lot of people would be intimidated by this situation – suddenly being deprived of their social circle. But I’m excited about the possibility it offers me – a fresh start, a blank canvas, a chance to paint my social reality any way I choose. And I’d like to invite you, Mehow, since you are a master social artist, to help me paint the most beautiful picture possible. These videos will give me the tools to help me do it!
Dear Mehow,
When I heard, over the conference call, the new infield exposed edition was coming out… my fun radar went off at 250% (:D). I’m an owner of the original GtG infield exposed, it was really helpful seeing you actually run through sets, it really beat learning from paper. It’s boosted my results to insane crazy levels.
Actually no.
I’m not gonna kiss your ass, no doubt everyone on the comment will be doing that today. Today, i’m gonna treat you like an HB10. Everyone else is doing it AFC style, so today, i’m gonna bring you the 10ssa way you’ve taught me.
I’m going to seduce you for goods (10ssa that is
)
Lets start over.
Why Hi! Mehow, I bet you were the coolest PUA back in the day. You have the baby blue eyes that would let you get away with anything.
Kind of like stealing mystery’s pen, and putting it into sinn’s purse, and making sure mystery found it.
(Still love you sinn)
Oh what’s my name? Take a guess. No you totally read my comment title. It’s alright, I have a lot of people staring up there, it’s cool.
How about we move down, lower down this page?
Here we go, you can sit on my text. We’re friends now, so we’re cool.
So whats your super secret special super power?
I can levitate people with my mind. Hold on, let me try it right now.
Ugh, never mind, I only have a 300 pound weight limit.
Hey! Hands off Mehow, $5 a touch, what are you starting a tab here?
Look, i’m not the type of guy, that can be seduced with some pickup videos of himself. Maybe if we were in sweeden, where they sell pickup – stamps, in exchange for sex, we’d be cool, but here it’s a little different.
————————————
Alright, it’s getting a little lengthy here, so I’m just gonna cut it short.
I decided to enter this contest so I could get some free stuff here, and I wanted to do something different that’ll get your attention, rather then just writing some sob story or kissing your ass. But really, isn’t that what pick up is? Trying new stuff, not going with the flow, having tons of fun.
So thanks for reading Mehow, hopefully I dont get killed by sinn
, I am very excited for 10ssa Infield exposed, so bombs away my friend!
Sincerely,
Amar
Hi Mehow,
Those videos are amazig. I’ve learned evenfrom those few videos quite a lot and tried it.
the whole coversation went to another way. I’m still having problems with the conversations but it changed the whole dinamics and even the girl i tried the principles on texted me today (i met her yeterday on the bus) this just means that the techniques are going to get stunning results and at last i’ll succeed in picking the girl I want and not just by luck or something else. it has also made me feel much happier after those videos.. I hope I will get the free insider cuz i cannot afford anything right now, i’m in the military and not gettin much money. but anyway, it’s Just AMAZING product and the results are just LEGENDARY.
Eli.
Hey Mehow
I got your email a few hours ago and thought I’d click through. After watching the first video I was glued to the screen and had to devour all the other stuff as well.
In your mail, you asked 2 question.
* why we are so excited about your new products and secondly
* and that we convince you that we are seriously going to use this material.
What I’m about to share with you is not B.S.
I was driving in my car today thinking to myself, how on earth did I slip back into being an AFC?
It’s true. I used to do pua. I loved the mystery stuff, heard alot about you too. The stuff really worked and I was blown away by everything. I ended up with quite a lot of girls, something I could have never done if I didn’t learn this stuff. I then ended up in a relationship for an entire year with what I regarded as a stunner of a girl. I never did PUA again. After our breakup (shit happens) I lost all the “spark” I had….if you know what I mean. I re-read material and watched videos but for some reason I just couldn’t execute anything like I used to. I even wanted to post a cry for help today on one of the pua forums. Luckily I got your mail.
[So I'm crossing my fingers]
I think I got scared of learning all the old mystery stuff again, because his methods are so structured and leaves little room for anything unique. Don’t get me wrong…it works extremely well. But I’m having an uphill battle here that I’m starting to lose.
For about 2 months now I got your emails. I listened to interviews/chats that you posted on your blog. I heard about 10SSA but never really looked into it. BUT DAMN…after watching these videos on this page I need it. I NEED to experience a change by learning and IMPLEMENTING something NEW.
If anybody else is reading this comment, do yourself a favor. If you have the money to spend, get mehows new course. I’m confident it’s going to be the bomb.
So in every sense of the word…Yes I’m VERY EXCITED about your new 10SSA release.
*And if I’m a winner of one of the 10SSA releases, you can bet your ass I’m going to implement this into my life because there is no denying that what you do obviously works and because I need the change desperately. The video evidence truly speaks for itself.
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Ryan
How can you not be excited? Mehow has raised the bar so high with his videos I don’t why you ever need to buy any other product. I will definitely use this product because currently I’m King of the 6’s and MILFS. lol I just need a little extra game to start dating 8’s, 9’s, and 10’s. Also I’ll try to get some videos of me infield using your material.
the reason i should be granted one of the 10ssa infield exposed (apart from having no money in these hard times.lol) is because i’ve been saying no and putting things off for too long. everytime i see a girl i say to myself ‘i should approach her’ but then nothing. and im sick of it. i dont wanna be this guy anymore. i’ve been working on myself for so long and im a completley different person from 2 years ago – alot of that has been due to these techniques and mindsets i’ve learned from you guys….
i cant afford a bootcamp – and infield exposed is the next best thing to see how and why it works. im close to being the man i’ve always wanted to be, i guess in a really cheesy way you could say i need to see the light…and from listening to the teleconference and being a regular viewer of the blog, this feels like its the final hurdle for me.
i would really love the opportunity to use these products to bring my life to a full circle.